Become a Love-creation Teacher

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This is a self-teaching curriculum for you and others to perpetually grow the mental skills leading to feeling good and doing good.

2. Love-creation benefits

Virtually every religion, moral system, and spiritual guru emphasizes the importance of unconditional love.  The universal wisdom, “Love your neighbor as yourself,” suggests that until we learn to fulfill our own love needs, it will be difficult to love others.  It is hard to give away what we don’t own! 

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3. Why Love?

Welcome to stren #54: Why make love our most important enthusiasm?  In prior strens, we have discussed the process of freeing our will power from instinct and tradition to assume responsibility for our personal well-being.  Who and what we are, and how we are to think, feel, and act are first determined by endogenous and exogenous forces over which we have no control.  For simplicity, I have called these forces instinct and tradition

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4. What is Love?

Welcome to stren #55.  This stren provides an exploration of love.  The more you understand about love, the easier it will be to strengthen your love creation skills.  A side benefit is that you will learn how to become your own best friend.  The testimonial of others, personal experience, and observation verify the importance of love to a fulfilling life. 

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5. Love and Sex

Welcome to stren #56.  Today I want to consider the relationship between love and sex.  A significant source of our problems is mistaking erotic love for mature love.  Love and sex have distinct qualities.  They can be experienced together or separately.  Together, they can be glorious and mutually enhancing.  Though our language commonly associates them, like health, wealth, and happiness, they need not go together.  

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6. Love Creation

Welcome to stren #57, Love Creation.  This stren offers an unorthodox common sense explanation of the process by which we make mature love.  Mature love is our most important source of the energy we need to assume responsibility of our life experience, the secret to resilience and creating the multiple enthusiasms that sustain our youthful vigor. 

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7. The Skills of Mature Lovers

Welcome to stren #58, The Skills of Mature Lovers.  Unlike erotic love, which nature pre-wires in each of us, mature love is an acquired skill that must be learned, like reading or playing a musical instrument.  This stren considers the specific skills we acquire to create mature love. 

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8. Forgiveness

Welcome to stren #59.  This stren explains why forgiveness is one of the most powerful of all mental skills, perhaps the most.  I believe popularizing the skill of forgiveness is essential to attain peace of mind and create peace in the world.  See if you agree.

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9. The Biggest Payoff

Saying “Goodbye” To the Terrorist Within 

Welcome to stren #60.  As we discussed in the previous stren, when an individual puts a rabbit into a hat and pulls out a cat, we call that person a magician.  The portion of the brain that makes us human, our cerebral cortex or freedom organ, routinely performs such magical feats.  It converts physical energy into the mental energy we call consciousness, assigns meaning to symbols that transform energy into another form, and then reverses the process.

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10. Punishment and Limit Setting

Welcome to stren #61.  Today’s wisdom explains the distinction between punishment and limit setting.  The distinction is subtle but so significant that our survival may depend in it.  Understanding the difference explains why forgiveness is essential if we are to survive and thrive in this new age.  Human selection is rapidly overtaking natural selection as we master the knowledge of cause-and-effect to acquire the godlike power of creation and destruction.

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11. Sexual satisfaction

Understanding Sexual Pleasure[1]

and its Link to World Peace – Part A

 



[1] I acknowledge Allen Barnes, M.D., professor of obstetrics/gynecology at Johns Hopkins for his lectures on sexuality among other teachers during my professional training.   

Welcome to stren #80.  Today’s wisdom may surprise you when you learn how sexual pleasure is linked to the creation of world peace. 

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1. Take The 30 Day Challenge

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Donald Pet, M.D.

Become your own genie!

 

Create Happiness, Love, and World Peace

 

TAKE THE 30 DAY LOVE-CREATION CHALLENGE:

  1. When you wake up, look in the mirror and say to yourself: “I like myself because I am such a hot sketch.  Every day in every way I make myself happier and more loving.”
  2. Print out and practice the two powerful self-endorsement skills: Emotional Self-endorsement and The Reasonable Best Test of Self-worth. They are relatively secret because our establishment does not teach them and even discourages them.  Watch them kick out the self-putdowns that make you your own worst enemy and hold you back.
  3. Listen to Brad’s recordings at www.lovingmenow.org  until you know you’ve got it! 

 

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2. Emotional Self Endorsement

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Emotional Self Endorsement transcript

Good feelings stir us to continued action.  Immediate satisfaction is critical to sustain the work and practice required to attain the natural rewards of virtually every important skill, viz. getting an education, sustaining a relationship, keeping physically fit, playing a musical instrument, growing a garden, and – most importantly – growing our capacity for loving our self and others.  Emotional endorsement is the main source of immediate satisfaction that allows us to enjoy the work we do now in order to attain more satisfaction later.  Knowing we are doing something worthwhile is intellectual endorsement; its satisfaction is usually weaker than emotional joy.  Joining emotional endorsement to intellectual endorsement provides the most effective incentive to continue our efforts.

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3. The “Reasonable Best Test” of Self-worth

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The "Reasonable Best Test" of Self-worth transcript

Today I offer you one the most effective and consistent strens to help you become your own lifelong best friend and free yourself from dependency on dictators.  Apply what I call the reasonable best test: in any situation simply recognize when you’re doing your reasonable best and endorse yourself for doing so.  You will create and maintain positive feelings about yourself. 

What is the reasonable best test? 

Most people evaluate their self-worth by the “outcome” of what they do.  The reasonable best test is an “input” measure of self-worth.  It emphasizes your efforts, not the results of your efforts.  

 

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4. Become a love-creation teacher (script only)

         

 

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Donald Pet, M.D.

235 East River Drive, #1601

East Hartford, CT 

Phone: 860 324-9991                                   Internet: lovingmenow.org            Email:This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

 

2/23/2014

    

Become your own genie!

 

Everyone wants (and needs) happiness, unconditional love, abundance, and peace BUT our world is characterized by fear, hate, scarcity, and harmful confrontation.

 

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